I’ve never truly understood why women carry huge purses or mass quantities of baggage wherever they go. There seems to be an obsession with the idea that we should always have everything we (might) need with us at all times. I know multiple people that carry a purse, a work bag, a gym bag, and a food bag (lunch and snacks) every single day to and from home. What do they need the gym bag for when they’re hauling around all this stuff?
I am seriously befuddled by this concept of packing purses with everything from make-up to flashlights. Have you ever lifted a large purse pack to the brim with all that crap? It’s so heavy, I’m surprised more women aren’t walking around lopsided with one shoulder lower than the other.
Perhaps, I’m confused because I don’t go out as often as other people nor do I have grave concerns about being able to reapply my lipstick later in the day. Incidentally, I don’t worry about being trapped in a dark tunnel, either. Am I weird because I’ve never felt the need to carry loads of stuff with me all the time? Probably.
I have three modes of “packing” for when I leave the house, all of which are pretty minimalist compared to what I observe on a daily basis.
Mode #1: Work
- 1 tote bag that carries Lesson plan calendar, keys, wristlet (that holds iPod and cell phone), water, apple
Mode #2: Writing shift at the bookstore
- 1 tote bag or messenger bag that carries laptop, reading book or journal, (depending on writing goals for that day), wristlet, pencil pouch, keys
Mode #3: Anywhere else
- 1 wristlet or small purse that carries wallet (unless carrying wristlet), cell phone, iPod, keys
Now, I’m sure most men would consider these modes with the same confusion as I regard women with large purses. Everything a man needs or want fits nicely into his pants pockets, but I must argue that the pockets in women’s clothing are about four times smaller than those in men’s clothing.
Blame Wreck This Journal for my little rant on this subject. One of the pages gave instructions to trace the contents of my bag or pockets. I did this page a while ago, but everything I “need” to have with me on an outing has essentially stayed the same.
Keeping it simple.
For the record, I have a waaaay better cell phone these days, (no more flip-phone for this girl)!
If anything, carrying less makes me a little more careful and creative when I venture outside of the house. Whatever situation befalls me, I’m confident I’ve got the right equipment with me. And should I feel the need to run from danger, I won’t be weighed down by thirty pounds of clutter in my bag.
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c.b.w. 2012
C.B. Wentworth 