While the last week has been filled with emotions ranging from laughter to tears, I’ve had one thing to keep me grounded through it all. More than three years before my grandma died, she wrote a poem to my sister and I to remind us of how her passing is not necessarily an end. I am so thankful to her for writing these words . . .
And so my dears
my time is near
Please no tears
and have no fear
I know where I’ll be
you will be, too
eventually
In the meantime
we’ll rely on memories
We have many of them
and I know they’ll pop up
I hate to go
I love you so
Remember me,
I’ll come to you
Just stay aware
for I’ll be there
Listen with your heart
– – –
Today we say goodbye to Grandma, but not really. She said she’d always be around and I believe her.
– – –
c.b.w. 2012
She will! Sorry for your loss.
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Thanks. I feel her everywhere and I’m so happy for that. π
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Sorry for your loss – I know there is a huge hole in your heart right now, but your many great memories will get you through it. Stay strong – I know you will.
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The memories are always around me and like you said, they are saving me. π
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Wow. This is so beautiful C.B. No wonder you are such a nice person . . . you had great teachers!
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I would not be who I am today without her. π
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I love that she left that for you. How wonderful. Thinking of you today!!
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Thanks for being there and listening when I needed someone. You are amazing. π
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Awe. π
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Achingly lovely..I can feel her care, warmth, and a smile somehow too..
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I love that she still has that effect even though she has passed. Her spirit has always been very strong. π
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That’s a grand poem.
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My grandma always had a way with words. π
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To think she wrote that to you and your sister two years before she died! She must have been the kind of person who is always thinking of and giving to others … lovely, caring words.
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I’m so glad she did. There is an entire journal full of them, but this one was addressed specifically to my sister and I.
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what lovely words she left for you, along with wonderful memories and much wisdom and grace.
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All things I hope to embody each day. π
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Sorry for your loss. She left you with such lovely words.
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Thank you.
When she was still with us, she would read her poetry every week. I’m going to miss that.
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How loving of her to write this for you. I wish I would have known her but I feel that I do through you.
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I wish you could have met her!
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Such a lovely poem, CB. I’m so sorry for your loss. I know how you are feeling, my grandmother also passed away recently. She was 91 and had a good life, and gave my sister and I so many wonderful memories. My heart and prayers are with you!
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I’m so sorry you lost your grandma. The memories really are the light the chases away the grief. We are both so lucky to have had them in our lives for a such a long time. π
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What a lovely way to remember your grandmother and now I see where you get your talent for poetry. Both my grandmothers have been gone for more than a decade, but they are still dear to me. A friend of mine says, if you they come to you in a dream that you remember, then they have paid you a visit in spirit. May you dream of your Grandma often. π
(PS. I don’t mean to seem crass at this sad time, but I had popped over here to nominate you for the Blogger of the year Award.)
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It’s nice to hear the memories won’t fade. I thought of her a lot when she was still alive and I plan on keeping the tradition going even though she’s gone. π
(Not crass at all! In fact, it totally makes my day! Thank you!)
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Such a lovely gift she gave you. I can tell where a good bit of your courage came from!
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She was a feisty lady and I hope I inherited at least half of her courage. π
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Yep she’s right… she’s everywhere you look.
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Absolutely . . . . and I love that!
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What a treasure. Were you able to share the poem with your family members this week?
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My sister is the one who found it and we did make sure everyone saw it. π
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I’ve been reading that poem everyday…brings me lots of comfort! Grandma is still taking care of us<3
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I have it hanging on the fridge and it does the same for me. Thank you for making a copy of it for me. π
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What beautiful wisdom,. Sending you lots of good thoughts β€
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Thank you! π
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