Query letters have been sent. Competition entries have been submitted. Drafts have gone off to beta readers. In the age of instant gratification, waiting for a response in the writing world is a grueling endeavor. Weeks and months are a long time to wait when you’re dying to know whether your work is good enough to get picked up by a publisher. Or at the very least, whether somebody like it well enough to say, “good job.”
In the case of waiting for a literary agent to respond to a query letter, I go in with the assumption that nothing but silence with follow my inquiry. When a kindly worded rejection shows up in my inbox, I’m thrilled. Positive thinking is a powerful thing on this journey. So is keeping busy. The wait for any sort of a response is agonizing and it never seems to end. You’ll go nuts unless you keep yourself occupied with something other than obsessing over that elusive response.
Over the last couple of years, I’ve perfected the art of waiting with distraction. Trust me, keeping yourself busy makes the process a lot easier to take and in many ways softens the blow of rejection. Here’s a few ways to keep your muse inspired and give your patience a boost…
1) Keep writing.
Start that next novel or punch out a few short stories. Maybe even dabble in poetry or non-fiction articles. Follow your muse and write because you are a writer, regardless of your publication credits, (or lack thereof). Sometimes a “distraction” piece can turn into something great. My second novel began as a distraction and ended up as my passion project. It got me through a number of rejections and ultimately lead me to a new path.
2) Research literary agents.
Finding the right agent takes a lot of work. It takes research, research, and more research. Every agent has different tastes, query package requirements, and personalities. For those of us playing the waiting game, all the work and time required to find the right agent plays right into our hands. It takes a lot of time to compile a list of possible agents and prepare customized query packages. Luckily, time is something we have in plentiful supply!
Every writer I know is also a voracious reader. Between loving a good book and wanting to figure out how published authors crafted a great story, writers are inherently addicted to reading. While waiting for any sort of response to arrive, it’s nice to escape to another world and enjoy the ride. Plus, some authors thank their agents on the acknowledgments page. This ties in nicely to #2.
Most writers are never happy with a “final” draft. We’re always looking to make a sentence better or find a more perfect word. My final draft for The Muse has been altered (albeit slightly) multiple times since I started pitching it. A word here, a comma there, I’m always tinkering with it to make everything about it a little bit better. It’s time consuming and tedious work, but well worth every hour. While waiting for that one e-mail to arrive, I am happily ensconced in my fantasy world.
5) Find a hobby.
My craft closet has more stuff in it than my clothes closet. When an afternoon of writing is done, I’ll pull out a craft project to keep my hands busy and my mind occupied. It beats sitting around and thinking about why an agent hasn’t sent an excited request to read my manuscript. Of late, knitting has been my savior as it inspires my creativity and challenges me to try new things. My muse loves it, too. While I’m knitting row after row, she whispers to me and new stories are born.
This weekend, I sent off my entry to the Amazon Breakthrough Novel Award, which means a new round of waiting and waiting has commenced. I suspect my to-read stack of books will get shorter and the sweater I’m knitting will soon have sleeves.
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13 thoughts on “The Writer’s Waiting Game”
Good advice. Even when not waiting it seems those things would be good for taking a break to come back a few hours later with a clear mind.
So true. When I get stuck, knitting is usually the best remedy. 🙂
Are we the same person? haha! While I haven’t been writing as much as used to lately, I tend to forget about the pieces I sent out because then when I do get a response (whether an acceptance or rejection) I get really excited just to hear something! Great post!
Sometimes I forget what I’ve sent out as well. I’ll get a rejection and it will be a complete surprise – “Wait, when did I send that out?” Then, I check my spreadsheet and realize it’s been six months. Yikes!
Great suggestions for all sorts of waiting, and the completed knitting is a great testament to your creativity that will get you some immediate responses. Sending good wishes for the Amazon competition.
Thank you so much! 🙂
My sweater is starting to look great! Can’t wait to post the finished piece. 🙂
Always inspired by your updates! Patience is hard but you keep moving forward….good luck!
Hopefully, good things will happen. 🙂 If not, there’s always another door to try.
Waiting is definitely the worst part. Sometime this week, before the 1st, one of the short story contests I entered was supposed to contact winners, so I’ve kept an eye on that e-mail address but definitely have had to keep reading to keep myself from obsessing. Needless to say, no word, but that’s okay. I’m well into reading another book, reworking Novel #2, and studying up on publishing options. After all, like you said, keeping busy is definitely the key!
I’ve noticed the busier I stay the less time I have to pout over a rejection. There’s always another coal in the fire. 🙂
I can’t imagine anyone more creatively busier than you so all of the waiting has inspired more of your talents to surface.
Waiting certainly has its benefits! My knitting skills have developed very quickly from all the time I have to fill! Lol! 🙂