It’s been a little more than a month since my Grandma passed away. I’ve worked through the grief in a number of ways, but I’m still holding true to the promise I made to her. Whenever I feel sadness coming on, I simply dig into my memories and find one that makes me happy.
While cleaning out my closets and drawers, I came across some old crystals that at one time created one of my Grandma’s favorite things: rainbows. She always hung crystals from her window, so the sun would catch them and throw rainbows all over the floors, walls, and ceiling. Β I remember her teaching me how to hang them with fishing line and how to swing them so the rainbows would race across the room in a crazy cyclone of color.
The heart crystal was my Grandma’s favorite. I have to agree with her because it creates the largest and brightest rainbows when the sun hits it just right.
When I moved into my own home, I tried to hang crystals from the window, but my cat would not leave them alone. Every day she’d swat at them until they came down, so I had to put them in a drawer to keep them from breaking. I learned to live without the rainbows for the last 8 years, but I decided it was time to bring them back. My cat will learn just how “fun” a squirt bottle can be if she even thinks about swatting!
My Grandma gave me five different crystals long before she died, but I also inherited a couple of new ones. They all now hang from my kitchen window with “invisible string.” Come late afternoon, Grandma’s rainbows scatter throughout my house. I like to think of them as a little “hello” from her each day.
Note: This particular rainbow came from the heart-shaped crystal. It was at least 8 inches long and 4 inches wide! I did nothing to alter the color or lighting in this picture. The colors really were incredibly vibrant, even in a dark corner.Β It’s easy to see why that particular crystal was Grandma’s favorite!
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c.b.w. 2013
This is such a beautiful way to remember your grandma: you’re right, the cat will have to learn to live with it π I’m glad you can brighten up the dark little corners of grief.
All the best,
Megan
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So far she’s behaving, but I think its because she hasn’t figured out they’re there yet. π Either way, Grandma is in our house and that makes me really happy.
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What a refreshing post to read with my morning coffee. It’s always nice to remember the loved ones that have passed with gifts that they gave us. I never knew how the crystals could create rainbows like that by hanging them in the window. It’s something to think about next time I’m shopping for a gift for my mom. She loves stuff like that. Thanks for sharing this inspiring post.
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I spent most of my childhood around those rainbows and they really are magical. They would definitely make a lovely gift for your mom. π
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Thanks for the post and good thoughts. My grandma just passed early this morning.
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I’m sorry for your loss. π¦ Thinking of you and your family.
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What beautiful crystals and I’m glad you have hung them up to help your smiles. I’m enjoying getting to know your grandma through your memories.
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I love it when the rainbows hit the poem she wrote for my sister and I (its hanging on the fridge). π
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What a wonderful way to keep your grandmother close to you! My mother loved sun-catchers and I inherited a few as memories. The one I like the best is dandelion fluff caught between two circles of glass. My grandson loves to watch it spin in the window – and it’s high enough that my cat can’t reach it! When he is old enough to understand, I will tell him it belonged to his great grandma. π
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My grandma loved to press pansies! I’ve found a few them since she passed and they are bringing back some wonderful memories, too.
I’m sure your grandson will greatly appreciate your mother’s sun catchers one day!
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This is just wonderful – I would want to always be remembered with rainbows and crystal. Your grandmom is a fortunate woman. And you were fortunate to have such a special grandmom!
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Colorful light is definitely a nice way to be remembered. π
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What a beautiful memory, and a great way to honour your grandmother. My children have one of these too. We must find a sunny spot to hang it it’s so much fun dancing with rainbows around the room!
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Yes, you must hang it! I’d forgotten just how many rainbows fill the room. They are everywhere and they hide in the most interesting corners. π
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I have two rainbow makers in my living room…it gets the afternoon sun. And I love the magic!!!!
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It feels like a fairy tale, doesn’t it? π
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What a wonderful thought … ‘the rainbow being a hello from your grandma’! Amazing colours!
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She says hi everyday and I love feeling her presence in such a colorful way, π
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What a wonderful way to remember your grandmother. Beautiful rainbow.
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I spun them the other day and the rainbows went crazy – I like to think that was her laughing. π
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Lovely, C.B., to have such reminders of your Grandma brightening your day. I have crystals in the windows beside my front door, where they catch morning sun. Makes starting the day delightful.
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That is a wonderful way to start the day! π
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A magical and lasting way to remember your grandmother.
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I like how its different every day – just like her they are unpredictable. π
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How beautiful! I’m so glad that you have rainbows in your home again. : )
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Me, too. π
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Just so lovely..I too am finding my small ways to remember my dear Gran – thinking of her brings such happiness, along with obviously missing her so much – I love the idea of you finding your Grandma in your rainbows..x
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I find the memories are a saving grace. It is so easy to drown in how much we miss them, but the happy memories are like a much needed breath of air. π
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